The Dangerous Drug !!!

Well, Its time for me to get bit philosophical. I m searching answers for the questions that are perturbing me. About what ?? Well, Its about love and the commitment required for that. So far I didn't get a very good feeling about love. It seems like its a beautiful luring orange for the inexperienced. But the experienced say that if u pare the rinds you will find only rotten peels.
Is that due to the pangs of unrequited love or is it the truth?

One thing I really observed is the way it actually provokes people. I bet there is no drug so powerful as love. I want to talk about a guy I know. His plaint disposition is the major reason behind this blog. I know him for a long time and he was doing good before he got committed to a girl. Even after getting committed he used to tell that he is the most fortunate person in this world until he was plundered by a maelstrom of bitter emotions. It really showed the ignoble beast inside him. He was desolated and forgot about all his lofty ambitions. He got lost completely pushing himself and his career into doldrums.

I wanted look at the situation with equanimity. He used to be headstrong and tend to flout frankly if something goes wrong. As she was a recalcitrant it often results in a stilted conversation which eventually results in a unruly squabble. Ultimately the girl rescinded the love that was celebrated till then. Then the beast inside that guy showed up and shouted libelous statements that are leavened with a touch of unwarranted anger that I have never seen in him. And both feel that they were goaded beyond endurance by each other and they are not fit for each other.

My question here is where is the commitment?? If they can't compromise on certain things and think that they can't live with it how they got into such intimate relationship in the first place??? Or is this because of not having a tenacious hold on the relationship??

This guy is wasting his time crying wistfully as the halcyon days waft across his thoughts. As all his beliefs are just a reverie now what is the way out for him?? He lost the charm in his personal life and is not sincere in his work also. Is it acceptable if he spoils his promising career like this for someone who rejected him??? Languished with the bitter memories he is neither loyal to his company nor to his parents. Should this guy be punished or rehabilitated? Should he supplicate to her if she comes back even after all sufferings he has undergone???

Now I'm forced to conclude that,
LOVE IS REALLY MERETRICIOUS !!!!!!